I live in an epicurean world where my every day is filled with big feasts and good food. The nature of my job takes me to the best eating places, and my tummy is very much pampered. Sometimes, too much that my belly shows.

A strict model’s diet is impossible for me to say the least, and with all the temptations I am often presented with, how do I ever say no to delicacies like Adriana Lima does? Heck, even Adriana Lima caves in to chocolate cakes once in a while!

Let’s be realistic – staying trim and slim is what we all want, but we do not want to eat salads every day. I love my greens but no, salads every day is far too depressing. We have to be happy (and healthy) even when we are trying to slim down.

Many of you have asked what is a typical day of meals like for me, and I am most happy to share all my tips in this post. But please note that what works for me may not work for you, because we have different activity levels and metabolism rates. If you are suffering from any long-term illnesses and/or allergies, please consult a dietician and have him/her advise you professionally about slimming down.

Here are 9 Important Diet Tips On What To Eat To Stay Trim And Slim – our sequel to 11 simple rules to stay slim without exercising.

#1 THE 6:1 RATIO – SIX STRICT DAYS OF EATING AND ONE CHEAT DAY

I started on my slimming down quest with this strict 6:1 ratio. It simply means six strict days of eating and one cheat day; and it takes a hell lot of determination to get it done. But it will work. Your efforts will pay off.

Pick a day of the week to be your cheat day. I did not set a fixed day because I did not want my body to be too regimented and tuned to a routine that way, but it is entirely up to you. If I knew I had to attend a party on the coming Saturday, then that Saturday would be my cheat day of the week because more often than not, you do not have much food choices at an event and you’d have to eat whatever’s available.

“Started on your slimming down quest with this strict 6:1 ratio. It simply means six strict days of eating and one cheat day; and it takes a hell lot of determination to get it done. But it WILL work. Your efforts WILL pay off.”

On the six strict days, I do not touch a few categories of food – fried food, fast food, desserts (good luck and have fun), potato chips and processed snacks of that nature, canned drinks and sodas. And I eat three proper meals – breakfast, lunch and dinner. If I need a snack in between meals, it would only be a cup of fruits or a glass of milk. No eating after 8pm, too! So, supper definitely does not count as a meal yea?

On cheat days, I did not binge either. I allowed myself to give in to my cravings – ice-cream, cakes, cookies, eclairs… whatever. But in moderation and with control, please. Do not deprive yourself of the “sins” because they are actually mood-lifting as much as they are sinful, but do not stuff yourself silly either. A slice of cake can already make you happy, and three cubes of chocolates suffice to release the endorphins in your body. Sure, grab that slice of cheesy pizza too. But just one, ok?

#2 DRINK MS KINNY SLIMMING COFFEE AND COCOA

Slimming products are usually frowned upon because they cause diarrhea, cramps and all things nasty. Sure, you lose weight fast but they often come along with some sort of suffering.

But what if I told you you need not go through all of that, and can still lose weight gradually? Yes, you can with Ms kinny Slimming Coffee and Dark Cocoa. Formulated in the U.S.A. and manufactured in Singapore, I founded Ms Kinny with 2 other partners because we’ve been searching for ways that promote healthy weight loss sans all the discomfort.

Ms Kinny’s main products are the Original Slimming Coffee and Dark Cocoa. Both products are plant-based and Halal-certified, and all you have to do is to drink one sachet of our skinny coffee each every morning before your breakfast, and you are on your way to a healthy weight loss journey!

If you want to try them, you can buy my Ms Kinny slimming coffee & cocoa from mskinny.sg.

#3 HAVE YOUR RECOMMENDED DIETARY ALLOWANCE (RDA) CALCULATED

I stopped doing this already, because I found it too difficult to keep record of every single thing I eat throughout the day. But this step is definitely necessary in the initial stage of shedding those unwanted kilos. There are many websites that do the calculations for you based on your age, height, weight and activity level.

To be even more precise, pick those sites that help you calculate your RDA based on the weight you need to lose. All you need is to punch in your current weight/ BMI, then decide on a goal (desired weight/ BMI) and the site will work out how much you can eat to achieve your target while still remaining healthy.

“Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” – Kate Moss

There is no fixed answer for this, but I used this as a reference instead of religiously tying myself to all the numbers. Calculations to a precision can be really torturous! At the end of the day, remember that you still have to be happy. Depression is one attributing factor to obesity, and you definitely do not want to head that direction.

But of course, if you have any prevailing health issues and dietary requirements, please consult a professional before you even attempt to lose weight.

#4 BLOOD TYPE DIET – EAT FOOD THAT ARE SUITABLE FOR YOUR BLOOD TYPE

Do you know that different blood type calls for different foods for a healthier and trimmer diet? Your body supposedly reacts chemically to foods based on your respective blood type, and if you follow the recommendations for your blood type, your body will be more efficient in digestion. You will lose weight for sure, and it will even alleviate the chances of diseases. They call this the “Blood Type Diet”, and though it is not a common practice, I like it as a generic reference.

Here’s some overview if you are lazy to research:

TYPE-O PEOPLE NEEDS A DIET THAT IS HEAVY IN PROTEIN because the muscle tissues are skewing towards the high acid side. Think lean meat, poultry and fish. Berries are highly beneficial to counter the high acidity stomach that Type-O genetically has. Go easy on the grains and breads, especially in the initial phase of losing weight. Dairy products are not recommended too.

TYPE-AB PEOPLE HAVE LOW STOMACH ACID AND CANNOT METABOLIZE MEAT AS EFFICIENTLY. Eat more fish like tuna, trout and cod. Type-AB also has a weaker immune system, so if you fall under this category, you’d need more vegetables and fruits. Also, tofu and grains are ideal protein supplements. Avoid smoked and cured meats, and shellfish. Black tea, too.

TYPE-A PEOPLE HAVE SENSITIVE IMMUNE SYSTEM, AND ARE MORE PRONE TO CANCER AND HEART DISEASES. Also, if you are a Type-A, your stomach-acid content is lower, hence digestion of meat will be very slow. Try to go as meat-free as you can, and make up for your protein intake with beans and legumes and nuts. Ideally, your food should be as natural a state as possible – vegetables and fruits will be your best friends. But seafood works well too.

TYPE-B PEOPLE HAVE IT EASIER AS THEIR BLOOD ARE MORE RESISTANCE TOWARDS MOST SEVERE DISEASES, but are more prone to immune-system disorders. A balanced diet is most encouraged, especially a full variety of diary products. Abstain chicken as much as possible. Fish works well, but eliminate shellfish from your diet. Corn and buckwheat are major ingredients that attribute to weight gain.

#5 BREAKFASTS FOR CHAMPS – TAKE YOUR BREAKFAST SERIOUSLY

So, if you remember my previous post on 11 Tips to Stay Slim Without Exercising, you might recall this part about having three proper meals a day, and not skipping breakfast no matter what. I will do a recap; it’s gonna be lengthy, but bear with me because it will surely benefit you.

Many underestimate the importance of breakfast, but this should always be the first meal of our day, and it has to be taken seriously. In fact, skipping breakfast will cause all weight loss plans to backfire – because your body will condition your mind in to eating a lot more than you should for the rest of the day.

Start making breakfast a habit. It aids in weight control, and improves your overall performance and energy level for the day. This is also the time of the day when carbs (and occasional sweets) are encouraged – think oats and wholegrain breads with an almond butter spread, or peanut butter if you must.

“To cut the long story short: Breakfast should always be the first meal of our day, and it has to be taken seriously. Skipping breakfast will cause all weight loss plans to backfire – because your body will condition your mind in to eating a lot more than you should for the rest of the day.”

Adding protein also helps in keeping you fuller, so that you do not grab unnecessary snacks before lunch hour. Egg whites are highly recommended. Loaded with the highest quality protein, it keeps you full and satisfied.

A typical morning in my life is starting my day with two egg whites and a glass of water or Milo. Or grapefruit juice, of course. Sometimes when I wake up feeling really famished, I will also eat a banana or a bun. If you want something convenient that you can pack and eat on the go, sandwiches and subs are lovely; just remember to go easy on the sauce.

I do cut myself slack when I eat out, so there will be that occasional dim sum or French Toast kind of brunch. Eating sweets in the day (if you really need to) is also more advisable because you have the whole day to burn them off. So, go ahead and reach for that red velvet cupcake. Life ain’t that tough afterall.

#6 RELAX WITH LUNCH – NO HARD AND FAST RULES FOR LUNCH

Lunch is like a mood-lifter for me, especially on days that I work. I trust I am speaking for all who work typical 9-5 shifts, and are always counting down to lunch hours. It is like an escape from the humdrum of work, and it is that hour of the day that we can take a little breather. It is also the meal of the day that allows us to recharge ourselves.

Lunch can be fancy, but it must not be heavy lest it leaves you sluggish for the next half of the day. Again, different activity levels call for different requirements. If you hold a desk-bound job, you are the last on the list to be entitled to a heavy lunch because the long hours of sitting that follows after lunch means digestion will be slow, and the contents may even settle on your tummy and hips.

No one wants muffin tops and that swimming float around the tummy, right? But if your activity level is high – say an athlete, a service staff that requires you to be physically active and/or up and about all day, or a construction worker – then you should load up on a bit more carbs and protein to stay energized.

“Why not try to pack your own lunch to work? Not only do you get to save money, you can also say goodbye to unhealthy food. Here are 10 useful tips on packing a healthy lunch to work.“

I do not set rules for my lunch. As long as I have a balanced diet, I am good. And what is a balanced diet to me? Carbs + protein + fibre. I would half my carbs portion, so even if it means wasting food, I would only eat half of what is served on my plate. Sometimes when I am not too hungry, I’d skip the carbs altogether. Protein is generally essential, so my lunch must include a type of meat or seafood. FIbre is very important for digestion, and I obtain my fibre from a lot of vegetables or a glass of fruit juice.

No hard and fast rules for lunch. Keep it simple and normal, don’t stress your body too much, and eat enough to keep you full till dinner. If need be, a midday snack can be an apple, or whatever your favourite fruit is. I don’t deny doing an occasional decadent treat like a slice of cake or a cookie, but that cannot happen every day. Once or twice a week is just about the maximum you can “cheat”.

#7 GO EASY ON DINNERS

One of my favourite quotes to live by – Feast like a king for breakfast, dine like a prince for lunch, and eat like a pauper for dinner.

I always keep my carbs for the first half of the day; whatever pastas and rice I crave and want to eat, I will have them at lunch. Dinners cannot be heavy, because food eaten at the last part of the day will not be metabolized as well and will very likely be converted into fat. Also, going to bed with a full stomach increases the chances of heartburn.

You may hate to find out, but my dinner is usually just soup, vegetables and fruits. And I prefer home-cooked soups so that the sodium content is lower; those lauded with MSG and other salts are high in sodium, and sodium causes water retention. I never say no to a hearty homemade kimchi stew, or a minestrone. Simpler days would be clear chicken soup or tofu and vegetables soup.

“Feast like a king for breakfast, dine like a prince for lunch, and eat like a pauper for dinner.”

Sounds impossible, but it can be done. It is just a matter of self-discipline and having your body get used to the reduced intake. Sure, it cannot be done overnight, so you start off with no carbs. Pick fish over meat, and help yourself to an extra serving of greens. I try to avoid eggs at night, but I’ve heard of how people rely on egg whites for dinner to keep them full at night.

Of course, evenings are usually when we meet up with friends, have a family gathering, or attend events and parties. Let loose on those days, enjoy that steak and duck confit, but stay away from carbs as much as possible. The darnest thing to do at night is to indulge in carbs.

And please please please do not take supper. If repeating this sentence to yourself a million times a day helps, then say it a million times.

#8 AVOID THESE FOOD AT ALL COSTS

There are sacrifices to be done. The following list of items are extremely detrimental to your health and figure, so you have to set your heart to stay away from them. Here goes:

Potato chips and processed snacks of that nature. Fast food and processed meats. Sweetened canned drinks and bubble tea.

If you want to make your life tougher (but congrats, and kudos to the determination!), we have a list of food that are commonly perceived to be healthy, but they are actually far from beneficial.

#9 AND LASTLY, TAKE YOUR TIME TO EAT

I have also mentioned in my first post that if you wolf down your food, you tend to eat more than what you should before you even realize it. On the flip side, if you take your time to eat, you feel fuller faster, hence reducing your overall intake. Having smaller bites also makes you feel less hungry after the meal. Take sips of water in between your bites too, to aid digestion and to fill you up faster.

To lose weight effectively and naturally, try MsKinny Slimming Coffee. You can buy the skinny coffee from Mskinny.sg

If you know me in person, and if you and I are friends since five years ago, you would know that I used to be pudgy and meaty. From a severely underweight girl during my school days, to growing horizontally till I had to wear an L-sized skirt, my ballooning during my teens years was a horrible phase and one that made me realize how unhealthy my habits were. I hated the way I looked, I hated taking photos, and I hated the world.

But I manifested those negativity into motivation to slim down; the course of doing so was not an easy one. The end result is, of course, a trimmer body, a healthier lifestyle and bigger confidence.

Let’s not talk about exercise regimens and workouts, because those are very subjective. Fundamentally, your daily habits and lifestyle play a huge part in how you would look, and till today, I live by these simple rules to stay trim – even with minimal exercise. And as I regularly share with my friends, here are my 12 Simple Rules To Stay Slim Without Exercising:

READ PART 2: 8 SECRET DIET TIPS ON WHAT TO EAT TO STAY TRIM AND SLIM.

#1 NO SUPPER – NO MATTER WHAT

When I set my mind on losing weight, the first bad habit I had to kick was supper. This may sound like just another meal of the day, but it is extremely detrimental. I bade goodbye to my nightly pratas and nasi lemaks.

I won’t kid you – it is not going to be easy. Only sheer determination will guide you through. But trust me, this is one habit that you will be thankful to rid when you step on the weighing scale again after a fortnight. And increasingly so.

If your tummy won’t stop growling at ungodly hours, then make do with some low calories food like broccolis, strawberries and oranges. They may not sound like the most exciting supper food, but no supper means no supper. You have to be firm about this. The more determined ones can sleep the hunger away, which is your best bet.

#2 DRINK MS KINNY SLIMMING COFFEE AND COCOA

Slimming products are usually frowned upon because they cause diarrhea, cramps and all things nasty. Sure, you lose weight fast but they often come along with some sort of suffering.

But what if I told you you need not go through all of that, and can still lose weight gradually? Yes, you can with Ms kinny Slimming Coffee and Dark Cocoa. Formulated in the U.S.A. and manufactured in Singapore, I founded Ms Kinny with 2 other partners because we’ve been searching for ways that promote healthy weight loss sans all the discomfort.

Ms Kinny’s main products are the Original Slimming Coffee and Dark Cocoa. Both products are plant-based and Halal-certified, and all you have to do is to drink one sachet of our skinny coffee each every morning before your breakfast, and you are on your way to a healthy weight loss journey!

If you want to try them, you can buy my Ms Kinny slimming coffee & cocoa from mskinny.sg.

#3 DRINK GRAPEFRUIT JUICE EVERY MORNING

This might not be the tastiest option for many, but it should be an essential in your life. Grapefruit has always been associated with weight loss, and though it may not perform miracles, there are many studies that have shown its efficiency and countless of people swear by it for a boost. Grapefruit aids in digestion due to its high water and fibre content, so a glass every morning before your breakfast helps in clearing your system and flushing out the toxins that are stored in your body. If you have gastritis, try only a small glass of 250ml, or skip it altogether.

Of course, it works best if you can eat the fruit itself without juicing it. But baby steps work fine. Get used to the juice first, then advance to the fruit itself.

For more tips, read our guide on Team More—How to eat whatever you want without giving up your summer bod.

#4 YES TO BREAKFAST

Breakfasts are for champions. Many underestimate the importance of breakfast, but this should always be the first meal of our day, and it has to be taken seriously. In fact, skipping breakfast will cause all weight loss plans to backfire – because your body will condition your mind in to eating a lot more than you should for the rest of the day.

Start making breakfast a habit. It aids in weight control, and improves your overall performance and energy level for the day. This is also the time of the day when carbs (and occasional sweets) are encouraged – think oats and wholegrain breads with an almond butter spread, or peanut butter if you must.

Adding protein also helps in keeping you fuller, so that you do not grab unnecessary snacks before lunch hour. Egg whites are highly recommended. Loaded with the highest quality protein, it keeps you full and satisfied. Studies have also shown that those who eat two egg whites every morning consume fewer calories across the day, and boast the highest percentage of overall weight loss.

#5 NO CARBS AFTER 7PM

I know it sounds impossible, but if I am such a glutton and I can do it, so can you. Carbs are killers, and while I love my pasta and breads so much, I do not touch them after 7pm. Your body still needs energy from carbs, but you can load ‘em up in the day – not excessively, of course.

Remember this rule: Feast like a king for breakfast, dine like a prince for lunch, and eat like a pauper for dinner.

#6 CHOOSE YOUR CALORIES WISELY

Now, this is my favourite, and one that I am really strict about till today. Many things in life happen because of the choices we make, and a wise decision can do you wonders. It is like choosing to climb that flight of stairs instead of taking the lift – yes, I still do simple things like that.

So, how to choose your calories wisely? There are few things that I abstain from and very rarely touch, and they include potatoes and potato chips. You have no idea how much I love my potatoes. Unfortunately, they are the darnest things to eat, really.

Now, this is an extremely simple theory. If there is fried chicken and grilled chicken on the menu, you know which you should pick, right? Grilled and steamed fish over pork-anything any time. Wholegrain bread is much better than sweet white bread. Order a fresh fruit juice instead of grabbing a can of soda, and do not add sugar to your coffee and tea. Avoid sausages and processed meats. Yes to more fruits and vegetables. Salad that has the dressing served separately also means you can control the amount that goes over your leaves.

Need a snack in between meals? Think twice before you reach for your bag of chips. Eat an apple or a cup of berries to keep you full; the sugar in the fruit will also curb your cravings for tea-time sweets.

And there is another generic rule that I live by: if your food goes bad fast, then it is good for you. Which brings me to my next point.

#7 SAY GOODBYE TO FAST FOOD AND PROCESSED FOOD

Yes, the truth is hard to handle but those junk will do you no good at all. I did not touch McDonald’s and KFC for two whole years. Resistance was very tough and Filet-O-Fish called me in my dreams, but when I saw a flatter tummy and leaner arms, that sense of satisfaction was unparalleled. Before I even realised, my body and mind were in harmony, and I was already conditioned to developing healthy cravings. Trust me when I said I actually felt so good when munching on raw spinach and olives.

So anyway, processed food means they contain a lot of preservatives, and those are hidden chemicals that you do not see when eating until they appear on your hips. There is also a reason why they are so affordable, but what the menu does not tell you is the price you have to pay after eating them.

#8 DON’T GO OVERBOARD WITH THE SWEETS

You know what they say about “you are what you eat”? I would eat a Victoria’s Secret model if I could (Candice Swanepoel or Alessandra Ambrosio, please), but the sad truth suggests I should just stay away from sweets because sugar is every model’s top enemy. They are useless calories, and they do nothing but settle on your tummy, thighs and hips.

I love my eclairs, cookies and cupcakes. Sometimes, I indulge in ice-cream too. Not everyone has the kind of resistance to say ‘no’ to desserts like Adriana Lima does, especially when the world makes such great desserts.

I would say to go ahead and still eat them, but very selectively and minimally. Keep some days of the week sweets-free too. When I was doing my intense diet, I only had one cheat day per week, and even then, I only ate half a slice of cake.

I avoid canned drinks as much as possible too. A coke on a hot summer day by the beach sounds marvelous, but that is my occasional treat. Else, I stay away from soft drinks.

#9 EAT TOMATOES

The benefits of tomatoes are infinite, but for one, tomatoes aid in slimming down. It is a nutrient-dense super food, and is popular known for ridding cellulite. No in-depth science lesson today, but let me share it simply – tomatoes boast high level of lycopene, which is a key ingredient to help strengthen the skin and preventing the breaking of collagen. With collagen, the skin’s resilience is boosted and stops the fat cells and discourages cellulite from forming.

Read more about the benefits of tomatoes here.

#10 DRINK WATER REGULARLY

Water does not burn fat, but it is correlated to weight loss. For one, staying hydrated prevents overeating, and drinking water helps you stay full. Pee regularly to flush out the toxins in you.

#11 TAKE YOUR TIME AND EAT SLOWLY

Eating slowly and chewing your food properly helps in controlling your food intake, and even Gwyneth Paltrow uses this method. It is once again a correlation thing, but it is a good practice to inculcate in your lifestyle.

If you wolf down your food, you tend to eat more than what you should before you even realize it. On the flip side, if you take your time to eat, you feel fuller faster, hence reducing your overall intake. Having smaller bites also makes you feel less hungry after the meal. Take sips of water in between your bites too, to aid digestion and to fill you up faster.

#12 HAVE ENOUGH SLEEP EVERY NIGHT

The lesser you sleep, the more likely you are to gain weight. When our body does not have sufficient rest, our metabolism is affected. Being sleep-deprived also means a compromise on your energy level. When at work, we drink coffee to stay awake; we grab sweet snacks in between meals to give us an energy boost. The ideal is to have at least 7.5 hours of sleep each night, and of course, do not go to bed with a full tummy – that will increase the risk of heartburn, which keeps you up all night.

Sounds simple for a start? Are you more motivated to incorporate these healthy habits into your lifestyle? These are methods that may or may not be certified by doctors and specialists, but these are methods that are proven to be beneficial. But if you are suffering from obesity and other health problems, do consult a doctor for professional advice on how to lose weight while staying healthy.

To lose weight effectively and naturally, try MsKinny Slimming Coffee. You can buy the skinny coffee from Mskinny.sg